The Currency of Grief

EP06: Ethan Blauner: Breaking the Cycle of Pain by Embracing Emotions

Grief cracked Ethan Blauner wide open, and instead of running from the pain, he built a life around feeling every part of it.
 
When his father died just days before they were set to open a gym together, Ethan found himself grieving while launching a business, managing chaos, and facing decades of generational trauma. As he joins Justin Weidenfeld on this episode, Ethan reflects on the intensity of that time and what it taught him about vulnerability, identity, and the cost of silence.
 
What happens when you grow up with a parent who never learned to process their own pain? And how do you begin to break a cycle that’s been running for generations? Ethan shares the reality of losing his dad in the middle of a mental health crisis, the impact of being raised by the child of Holocaust survivors, and why he believes emotional expression is a form of strength. He talks about the gym they built, the grief it holds, and the unexpected clarity that came from choosing to feel instead of numb.
 
From building community through fitness to founding the Dead Dad Run Club, Ethan’s story is a powerful look at how grief can reshape your life and what’s possible when you decide to meet it head-on.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Grief and Purpose Collide
06:15 Ethan’s Father’s Mental Health Crisis and Trip to Israel
13:01 Searching for His Father and Facing the Unknown
17:10 Identifying the Body and Finding Closure
24:54 Growing Up with Chaos: The Emotional Legacy of His Father
27:02 Generational Trauma and the Decision to Break the Cycle
30:00 Numbness, Vulnerability, and Choosing to Feel
34:40 Launching a Gym While Grieving
39:27 Redefining Strength: Emotional Awareness as Power
48:08 Comedy, Crying, and Creative Release as Therapy
52:58 Facing the Financial and Legal Aftermath
01:01:20 Dead Dad Run Club and Building Community Through Fitness
01:06:50 Gratitude, Grief, and Growth
 
Links
Connect with Ethan Blauner:
Instagram: @deaddadrunclub
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
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EP05: Bill Solominsky: From Engineer to Executor

Most people have no idea how overwhelming things get after a loved one dies. Bill Solominsky didn’t either until he lost his dad and found himself managing grief, paperwork, and unanswered questions all at once.
 
When his father was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer, Bill flew home with a blank spreadsheet and a gut instinct that he needed to start asking questions. What accounts existed? Which bills were on autopay? Would his mom be financially okay? That one conversation gave him a head start but not a full picture.
 
In this episode, Bill joins Justin Weidenfeld to talk through the mix of grief and financial responsibility. They cover how active listening helped Bill navigate hard conversations, the tax implications that caught them off guard, and the financial mistakes that happen when families are left to figure things out under stress. What details fall through the cracks when you’re emotionally maxed out? How can you prepare without feeling morbid or intrusive? And what does it actually take to help someone through the money side of loss?
 
This episode offers perspective for anyone who wants to have these conversations while they still can and avoid being blindsided later.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction to Bill Solominsky
08:02 Navigating Grief After a Parent’s Diagnosis
10:03 Key Financial Conversations Before Loss
24:20 Coping Through Helping Others
29:41 What Happens Immediately After a Death
41:17 Financial and Legal Mistakes During Grief
52:07 Tax Implications and Lessons Learned
 
Links
Connect with Bill Solominsky:
LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/billsolominsky/
Website: https://www.reluctantexecutor.com/
 
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
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EP04: Kevin and Jeff Romer: The Balance of Hope and Despair

What happens when life doesn’t go according to plan? How do you keep hope alive when faced with unimaginable challenges?
 
In this episode, Justin Weidenfeld welcomes Kevin and Jeff Romer, a father and son who openly share their family’s journey after receiving Mathew’s devastating Tay-Sachs disease diagnosis. Kevin recalls the overwhelming early days—the emotional and financial pressures, the uncertainty about the future—and sheds light on the crucial role genetic testing plays in family planning.
 
Jeff reflects on what it meant growing up as Mathew’s brother, revealing the complex mix of isolation, guilt, and determination that shaped his childhood. Together, Kevin and Jeff explain how founding the Mathew Forbes Romer Foundation became a meaningful response to their grief and a way to help other families facing similar situations.
 
Their story highlights the power of preparation and awareness: Why is genetic testing essential for every family, regardless of background? How can community support transform your experience of grief?
 
Join this meaningful discussion to find out how the Romers turned tragedy into lasting impact, inspiring compassion, understanding, and hope along the way.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction 
06:08 Discovering Tay-Sachs Disease
10:12 Balancing Care and Family Life
13:00 Jeff’s Perspective: Growing Up with Mathew
17:04 Life After Mathew’s Passing
19:06 Kevin Reflects on Mathew’s Life
25:08 Support Systems and Community
30:01 The Role of Employers in Supporting Grieving Employees
34:04 The Importance of Bereavement Services
35:00 Kevin’s Grief Process After Mathew's Death
38:20 Jeff’s Grief Journey and Coping Mechanisms
41:03 Financial Challenges and Medical Expenses
51:32 Honoring Mathew’s Legacy: The Foundation
 
Links
Connect with Kevin Romer & Jeff Romer:
https://mfrfoundation.org/  
https://www.instagram.com/brainwave.chess/ 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffrey-romer/ 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-romer/
 
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecurrencyofgrief_podcast 
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EP03: Sarah Grifferty: The Lessons of Living Learned from Her Parents Dying

Grief doesn’t follow a timeline, and when it collides with financial and legal logistics, the weight of it can feel impossible to carry alone.
 
Justin Weidenfeld sits down with Sarah Grifferty, the founder of LooseEnds and a partner at BUILD Coalition, to talk about the intersection of loss, money, and the unseen burdens that come with both. After losing her father at 19 and her mother at 23, Sarah found herself not only grieving but also navigating the overwhelming task of settling an estate. How do you handle endless paperwork, hold times, and financial decisions while carrying the emotional weight of loss? And why does support often vanish just when grief feels the heaviest?
 
Sarah shares how she made sense of the chaos, why she believes grief isn’t something to “move on” from, and what she’s doing to make this process easier for others. She introduces the idea of a “grief team” and explains how having the right people around can make a difficult road more manageable. She also challenges the way society treats grief, urging more open conversations about death, legacy, and financial planning before the need becomes urgent.
 
This episode reminds us that grief and financial matters are deeply intertwined, and that navigating both with openness and support can make all the difference.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction 
03:12 Personal Grief Experiences: Losing Parents
05:46 Integrating Grief into Life and Work
07:03 The Practical Challenges of Managing an Estate
09:54 The Importance of Grieving and the Distractions
16:47 The Grief Cliff: Support Fades Over Time
18:59 The Role of Friends and Community in Grief
21:19 The Importance of Togetherness in Grief
25:51 Lessons on Living Through Dying
27:29 Building a Grief Support Team
31:49 Transitioning to Adulthood Without Parents
35:12 The Value of Sharing Grief Stories
38:10 Discussing Money and Logistics in Childhood
42:43 The Role of Executor and Co-Executor
52:48 The Taboo Topics: Death, Money, Religion, and Taxes
 
Links
Connect with Sarah Grifferty:
https://www.looseends.co/
https://www.instagram.com/looseendsinc/
https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahatlooseends
https://www.linkedin.com/company/looseendsinc/
https://www.thebuildcoalition.org/
https://instagram.com/buildcoalition
 
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
Instagram: @thecurrencyofgrief_podcast
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EP02: Justin Weidenfeld, Your Grief Financial Officer: My Story, My Why and My Mission for the Podcast

Losing a loved one is heartbreaking. But how can you cope when you’re also the one left to handle everything they left behind?
 
At 21, Justin Weidenfeld’s world turned upside down when his father died suddenly from a heart attack. Overnight, he went from college student to personal representative of his father’s estate without a roadmap, without a will, and without time to grieve before stepping into the chaos of legal and financial logistics. In this episode, Justin sits down with his close friend Jeff Romer to unpack what that experience taught him about loss, responsibility, and the unexpected burden of navigating money and legacy in the wake of grief.
 
What do you do when accounts are frozen, medical insurance vanishes, and no one has the answers? How do you balance overwhelming emotions with the urgent need to take action? Justin shares the painful realities he faced, the support that got him through, and the lessons he wishes every family would talk about before it’s too late.
 
This conversation is raw, real, and deeply important. Whether you’ve experienced loss or want to prepare for the inevitable, Justin’s story will leave you thinking differently about what it means to plan for the future, and why those tough conversations matter more than we realize.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction 
08:10 Justin’s Childhood and Family Background
10:01 Support System in Sports
13:21 Relationship with Parents
15:06 Generosity and Community
17:31 High School and Parental Divorce
22:22 College Life and Achievements
26:09 Receiving the News of Dad’s Passing
29:26 Immediate Aftermath and Emotions
32:56 Support and Advice from Others
34:57 Funeral and Eulogy
39:13 Realization of New Normal
43:11 Role of Personal Representative
48:23 Financial and Legal Challenges
51:05 Navigating Health Insurance
53:41 Mindset Shift: Why is This Happening for Me?
 
Links
https://e.givesmart.com/s/:sNmMHNeJJS4/e/DxD/
 
https://experiencecamps.org/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAiaC-BhBEEiwAjY99qA91moAqmiDxo9-i-ZYWqpy_QIKUwnS19GhhglDRdnlc8LBb3V8TnxoCHScQAvD_BwE
 
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
Instagram: @thecurrencyofgrief_podcast
 
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EP01: Rob Royall: “There’s no substitute for enjoying life today.”

Grief and money rarely get talked about in the same breath, but when they do, the conversations are often messy, emotional, and long overdue.
 
In this first episode of The Currency of Grief, host Justin Weidenfeld sits down with Rob Royall, a clinical researcher and philanthropist who lost both parents to cancer before he turned 30. Rob shares what it was like to navigate the hardest chapter of his life—watching his parents battle illness, managing their estate, and figuring out how to move forward while carrying their legacy with him. What happens when the money meant for retirement becomes an inheritance instead? How do you balance financial security with truly living?
 
Rob opens up about his parents’ mindset around money, their modest approach to saving, and how their passing changed the way he thinks about building a life. He talks through the logistics he had to handle as an only child—clearing out their home, settling finances, and handling legal red tape. His experience proves why proactive planning matters and why waiting to have those hard conversations can leave unanswered questions that linger for a lifetime.
 
But this isn’t just a story of loss. It’s about taking grief and turning it into something meaningful. Rob founded a nonprofit golf tournament to raise money for cancer research, blending his love for the game with a mission to help others. His journey is proof that honoring a legacy isn’t about grand gestures but about showing up, doing the work, and making sure the people we love are remembered in ways that truly matter.
 
The Currency of Grief is a reminder to have the conversations that feel uncomfortable, make the plans we don’t want to think about, and find ways to carry love and legacy forward even in the hardest moments.
 
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction 
05:10 Personal Story: Rob’s Parents’ Cancer Diagnosis
08:12 Rob’s Family Life and Marriage Proposal
14:04 Impact of Father’s Cancer Diagnosis
21:31 Rob’s Relationship with His Mother
24:12 Coping with Loss and Finding Support
27:02 Founding Birdies and Brews Charity
29:08 Emotional Processing and Finding Joy
32:40 Transition to Financial and Logistical Responsibilities
41:01 Experience with Estate Attorney
46:23 Financial Planning for Rob’s Family
48:02 Impact of Parents’ Financial Philosophy
51:07 Balancing Work, Family, and Financial Planning
55:27 Celebrating Small Victories
 
Links
Connect with Rob Royall:
https://www.birdiesandbrewscharity.com/ 
 
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
Instagram: @thecurrencyofgrief_podcast
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The Currency of Grief - Trailer

Death and money are two of the most taboo topics in our society yet they are inevitable for all of us. So why don’t we talk about death and money more? The fact is, we’re all going to have to face our mortality and the mortality of the people we love. During the toughest times in our life, we will also be faced with an overwhelming amount of financial and logistical decisions. These decisions have the power to bring people together or tear families apart. That’s why our mission is so important! 
 
Here on The Currency of Grief, we bring death and money to the forefront of the conversation. We’ll feature real life stories from real life people who have navigated the intersection of grief and money. Our guests are not celebrities, they are normal people just like you and me.
 
My name is Justin Weidenfeld, and I’m going to serve as your Grief Financial Officer on the journey that is The Currency of Grief Podcast. My purpose for this podcast is to normalize conversations around death and money, inspire you to have deeper conversations with your loved ones (while you can), act as a resource for people currently navigating a grief and money journey, and encourage listeners to approach their own legacy head on.
 
Whether you’re in the midst of your own grief and money journey or need a reality check about planning for the inevitable, this podcast is for you. Each episode provides heartfelt insights, logistical nuances and practical advice that will help you navigate financial and emotional adversity WHEN you are faced with loss. 
 
The Currency of Grief Podcast will air biweekly on Fridays and can be listened to on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. I am grateful that you’ve decided to join me on this journey!